Adding Awareness to the Search for a Partner

The blocks that we have when searching for a partner or relationship are:

  1. Admitting that we are looking for a partner. (“Oh, I’m just fine and happy alone!”–the statement to the outside world when inside you are dying inside because your needs are getting met…)
  2. Becoming aware of exactly what you are looking for.
  3. Fear behind actually looking for it.

So, the harmless,  easy helpful exercise for #2 which I do when someone is looking for a partner (after I help them admit that they actually want a partner, which is  sometimes a very non-easy thing for them to do) is to:

  • First, write down all the things you want from a partner…

This is a powerful awareness-adding exercise in itself (in fact, it has provided me with partners pretty much matching my criteria in 4 weeks both times I have consciously done it).

BUT,  there is a second, super powerful and important part of the exercise which I can’t tell you because it will ruin everything, but when you have done the first part, let me know and I will send it to you…


About Ryan Orrock

Ryan works with power and sexuality to help people get what they want.

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